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Dear Abby: Grieving partner struggles with more loss

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:05:09 GMT

Dear Abby: We were a male couple in our 70s, together for 21 years, before my husband, “Charles,” died of COPD three weeks ago. For more than four years, I watched his health and quality of life decline until he finally had had enough and chose hospice. In less than 24 hours, he was gone.He chose his way out, and for his sake, I’m thankful, but the pain I’m feeling is incredible. Each person grieves in their own way in their own time, and my friends and family have been amazing. I know Charles would want me to live my best life, and to honor him, which is exactly what I plan to do. The amount of paper and legal work is suffocating, but we are all getting through it.During this time, I had expected to lean on our precious dog for comfort, but now he also will be taken from me. The vet just diagnosed him with liver cancer, and he has maybe four months to live. I’m numb and feel like a stranger in my own body. I know I’m strong enough to grieve them ...

New affordable housing opens in North County

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:05:09 GMT

SAN MARCOS, Calif. -- A new $6.5 million affordable housing development opened Thursday in San Marcos, San Diego County officials said.Villa Serena, located on Marcos Street, is an 85-unit complex for families and individuals earning less than 60% of the area median income, according to the county. Eight homes have been set aside for young adults transitioning out of the foster system.Some of the amenities featured in the community include access to community spaces, a computer lab and an outdoor play area, per officials. Parks, retail, restaurants and the Boys and Girls Club of San Marcos are all within walking distance. Campsites at California State Parks could get easier to reserve. Here are the proposed changes The complex offers one, two and three-bedroom units.Villa Serena is part of a two-phase project that will create 148 homes once complete, the county said.

Chile leader to require state share in lithium extraction

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:05:09 GMT

SANTIAGO, Chile (AP) — President Gabriel Boric announced a plan Thursday to require private companies take Chile’s government on as a partner in the extration of lithium, which is in high demand around the world for use in electric batteries.Boric, who spoke on a national media network, said the state will participate in the entire lithium production cycle in a “public-private collaboration” that the government will control.“Any private company, whether foreign or local, that wants to exploit lithium in Chile must partner with the state,” he said.Chile has the world’s third largest lithium reserves, at 9.6 million tons, behind Bolivia with 21 million and Argentina with 19.3 million, according to the U.S. Geological Survey. But Chile was the world’s second largest producer last year with an estimated 39,000 metric tons, after Australia, with 61,000 tons.Boric wants to create a National Lithium Company to partner with private companies, but he conceded that likely will not happe...

Sudan’s top general says military committed to civilian rule

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:05:09 GMT

CAIRO (AP) — Sudan’s top general said Friday the military remains committed to a transition to civilian rule, in his first speech since brutal fighting between his forces and the country’s powerful paramilitary began nearly a week ago. In a video message released early Friday to mark the Muslim Eid al-Fitr holiday, army chief Gen. Abdel Fattah Burhan said: “We are confident that we will overcome this ordeal with our training, wisdom and strength, preserving the security and unity of the state, allowing us to be entrusted with the safe transition to civilian rule.” It was the first time Burhan has been seen since the capital and other areas descended into chaos in the fighting. It wasn’t known when or where the video was made.On Thursday, Sudan’s military ruled out negotiations with the rival Rapid Support Forces, saying it would only accept its surrender. The two sides continued to battle in central Khartoum and other parts of the country, threatening to wrec...

Guard actions in Mexico fire seen as key to who lived, died

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:05:09 GMT

CIUDAD JUAREZ, Mexico (AP) — When a fire broke out at a Mexican immigration detention facility last month, dramatically different reactions by guards in the men’s and women’s sections appeared to make a difference in who lived and died, according to previously unreported surveillance videos and witness statements viewed by The Associated Press.Forty male detainees perished in the March 27 blaze, allegedly started by a male migrant in protest of their rumored transfer from the facility in Ciudad Juarez, across the border from El Paso, Texas. All 15 of the female detainees safely escaped from their side of the facility as it began to fill with smoke. The videos show that in the hours before the fire, the deadliest ever at migration detention center in the country, private security guards contracted by Mexico’s immigration agency used keys to open the men’s section to allow cleaning personnel to enter and to bring them large jugs of water.However once the fire started, no one tried to ...

Police make 6th arrest in Alabama Sweet 16 party shooting

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:05:09 GMT

DADEVILLE, Ala. (AP) — Investigators on Thursday charged a sixth person with reckless murder in connection with a deadly shooting at a Sweet 16 birthday party, saying in court documents they believe gunmen shot into the crowd during the celebration. Investigators said in court documents filed Thursday that they believe five of those charged were present at the party on April 15 and “discharged firearms into the crowd,” resulting in the deaths of four people. The Alabama Law Enforcement Agency on Thursday night announced the arrest of a 15-year-old juvenile from Tuskegee, Alabama, the sixth person charged in the case, but court records were not released because of the person’s age. All six face reckless murder charges in connection with the fatal shooting, the state agency said. The Sweet 16 birthday, at a dance studio just off the town square, was in full swing when gunfire erupted. Investigators have not discussed a motive or what they believe led to the shooting. The s...

2 men wrongly convicted in California are declared innocent

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:05:09 GMT

LOS ANGELES (AP) — Two men who served nearly 17 years in prison after being wrongly convicted of attempted murder after a 2004 shooting were declared innocent Thursday by a California judge. Under a new law, the state is required to pay them each $140 for every day they spent behind bars, or about $900,000. The verdicts for Dupree Glass and Juan Rayford concluded a new trial that began in October after a state appeals court panel vacated their convictions and they were freed in 2020. The proceedings included a dramatic confession by the actual shooter, Chad Brandon McZeal, a gang member who’s serving a life sentence for murder in an unrelated case, the defense team said. After the judge ruled, Glass and Rayford embraced each other and their attorneys. Outside the courthouse, the men were cheered by family members and supporters. Rayford, clutching his baby daughter, called it an “amazing” feeling to have their records finally wiped clean and their reputations restored. “I thought ab...

Twitter scraps ‘government-funded media’ tag on public broadcasters

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:05:09 GMT

Twitter removed the “government-funded media” tag on public broadcasters including the CBC Thursday without any explanation.The move came after the Global Task Force for public media called on Twitter earlier in the day to correct its description of public broadcasters in Canada, Australia, New Zealand and South Korea.The group chaired by CBC president Catherine Tait had said Twitter applied the label without warning to the accounts of CBC/Radio-Canada; the Australian Broadcasting Corporation, known as ABC; the Korean Broadcasting System, or KBS; and Radio New Zealand, or RNZ. It noted that Twitter’s own policy defines government-funded media as those that may have varying degrees of government involvement over editorial content.The task force said that was not the case here, where editorial independence is protected in law and enshrined in editorial policies.It said the most accurate label would be “publicly funded media.”Twitter initially labelled several accounts with...

Haley vs. Scott: From South Carolina allies to 2024 rivals

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:05:09 GMT

COLUMBIA, S.C. (AP) — As she introduced South Carolina’s next senator, then-Gov. Nikki Haley said her decision to appoint Tim Scott was “pretty simple.”“This man loves South Carolina,” Haley said of Scott, a congressman at the time. “He is very aware that what he does and every vote he makes affects South Carolina and affects our country. And so it was with that that I knew he was the right person.”Scott was just as effusive, praising Haley as someone who governed with “conviction” and “integrity.” He pledged to “get on the team with Nikki Haley to make sure that all of America continues to hear the great things about South Carolina.”Haley and Scott are forever linked by that announcement at the South Carolina Statehouse on a winter day in 2012, cementing their status as rising stars in a Republican Party frustrated by Barack Obama’s reelection just a month earlier. But nearly a dozen years later, they find themselves poised to run against each other for the GOP presiden...

UK foreign secretary leaves Pacific early to focus on Sudan

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:05:09 GMT

WELLINGTON, New Zealand (AP) — Britain’s Foreign Secretary James Cleverly cut short a Pacific tour Friday to return to Britain and deal with the deteriorating situation in Sudan.Sudan’s military ruled out negotiations with a rival paramilitary force Thursday, saying it would only accept its surrender as the two sides continued to battle in central Khartoum and other parts of the country.The British High Commission said Cleverly had been dealing with the Sudan situation from its offices in Wellington by making a series of calls to key partners overnight.Cleverly left from New Zealand a day before he was due to meet with his counterpart, Nanaia Mahuta. He’d arrived in New Zealand earlier than scheduled Thursday on his first official visit to the country after skipping a planned visit to Samoa and flying in directly from the Solomon Islands.“It’s with real regret that due to the ongoing situation in Sudan I’ve had to cut the visit short,” Cleverly said in a statement....